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I'm a 41 year old Asian man. I am 5'8" with a slim, athletic build. Uncut. I'm divorced and have always wanted to try CFNM, but I am not into pain or total humiliation. I want to be a play thing but not a slave.

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National heritageVietnamese
BuildAthletic / toned
Height5' 8" (173 cm)
Eye ColorBlack
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Thin
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitleSr. Software Engineer

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchSomeone who likes to be in control but doesn't want to inflict pain. They must like their men completely nude - no harnesses or collars or fetish gear. I would like to be a toy, not a slave.
Our first dateMeeting in a public place for both our safeties. If we are comfortable and on the same page, we can go from there.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyVoyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasA female friend of mine came into the bedroom while I was nude, and my ex-wife invited her to look at my cock, since she had never seen an uncircumcised penis before. My ex played with it and got it hard in front of her and she was mesmerized. It was a hu


FetishesExhibitionism, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkNo thanks
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isLove ass play, but not penetration
Sex toys:Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anything involving pain (other than playful spanking). Anal penetration. Bodily fluids other than male/female cum.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyCFNM. I would like to be nude with one or more clothed women while they tell me what to do (within reason) or just play with my body at will.
Fantasy sex partner:Someone relatively young, attractive, and fit. My ex-wife was morbidly obese, and I am the opposite, so I'm not looking for overweight people. A few extra pounds.

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Feathers and Gentle Spankings
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Supreme Goddess
Ideal session:Me totally nude while she tells me to do chores or masturbate while she watches or touches me.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:I am nude while multiple clothed or nude women take control and play with my body.