New here? Sign Up Have an account?

You know you fake your confidence. You don't have to with me - I know you're pathetic and horny.

I'm a 33 year old professional Latina Female. If you enjoy a curvaceous body, full lips, dark hair, and a confident smile, I will bring you to your knees. I enjoy letting males enjoy me in sensuous servitude. I am willing to allow you to be creative with your service to Me. I'm not just a demanding supreme Goddess with a firm hand - I'm also funny and enjoy laughing and having sweet moments when my pets are pleasing to Me.

I have an appreciation for intelligent masculine males, both new and established as submissive boy toys. I enjoy the company of polite gentlemen who know their places and happily reward those who take the time to know Me, and can anticipate My needs and desires. If you make it worth my while, we will meet.

What I'm NOT: I am not a harsh or cruel dominatrix with historical baggage that causes me to order men around in some attempt to correct some exploitive relationship in the past. I am not seeking a submissive partner because of some inability to hold my own with a confident person.

I am not a lonely, bored, housewife, seeking to feel sexy again. I am not some lifeless loser demanding money like many and pretending to be your Superior Goddess for attention. I am not under the impression that you are submissive in your professional life or in any other part of your life. I am not interested in a man who switches between submissive and dominant in passionate settings. I am not a prostitute. Any meet ups with reimbursement will never include you penetrating me in any way.

I work as a professional and have a familiar name within my line of work, therefore I enjoy the occasional meet up for business and pleasure out of town, and do not have my true city listed in this profile.

I have seen a few amazing women here, but sadly, many of the "dommes" use the community as their only source of flattery in their lives, rudely demanding something for nothing. Many of these females are neither dominant nor superior; they are desperate and resentful of their situations, and depend on attention (and money) of men for their validation. Therefore, they are not dominant, but actually dependent on these subs. Tsk, tsk.

A Queen is presented with gifts by admirers because She deserves it, and because admirers want Her attention. They should be self-driving to want to pay tribute to Her class, grace, beauty, etc. They wish to make Her happy, and take joy in the joy of the Queen who opens a gift from them.

Also, do not call me Mistress or Ma'am. I am Miss Ember. I am not a prostitute, you will not get to fuck me.

Sign Up 100% FREE to Get In Touch

Signup Free Today

My Ball Busting preferences

How high is your threshold of pain?High
What do you get most out of ball busting?Humiliating him, His painful reaction

My Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Giving

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?I do not have sex in public and I do not have sex with subs.


EthnicityLatino / Hispanic
National heritageMexican
Height5' 2" (157 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureLips
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo, Other
Health ConditionNo problems
My attractiveness:Average


Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityHotel Room
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Job TitleMedical field

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA sub male who uses a respectful tone, who isn't afraid to ask questions, and who doesn't mind sore knees and other body parts, if such a good time is had.

I like a man who can accept sharp-tongued criticism, who enjoys being corrected, and who does not get defensive.
Our first dateEndless flattery and a bowed head.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Defilement, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Foot / shoe worship, Kidnapping, Physical humiliation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasWe meet, we drink, you serve. You don't look me in the eye until I let you. You answer all questions honestly. Don't be afraid to smile.


FetishesCrossdressing, Exhibitionism, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Smoking, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Once a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Night life:Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
"Off Limits":Any type of scat play (unless you're changing my cat box nude for me)
Spitting on my sensuous genitals
Calling me "Mistress"
Cutting/Blood letting/Eunuchs/Permanent body modification
Children and men under the age of 25
Fake Subs / Switch males

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyMy most recent fantasy is to have a man purchase a strapon and harness and let me use it on him while he masturbates. When he is almost there, I want him to fulfill himself in front of me on his knees with the slick dildo bobbing in his face.
Fantasy locationAt a park, Dark alley, Hotel/motel, In a church, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:A generous, submissive male who will anticipate my wants, enjoys seeing me happy, and enjoy punishment if he doesn't.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Master-Mistress / Slave Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
I like to wear:I am open to knowing what excites you.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest
Implement:Hand, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
Desired Persona:Supreme Goddess
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings
Ideal session:Depends if I'm meeting for my pleasure or yours. If you and I make a deal that will benefit us both, I'll be most pleased. Ideally, we will share a bite and a drink, perhaps a smoke. I'll unwrap a gift. From a foot massage, to a spanking, to having you suck your juices off of a dildo - we can make it happen. It's what you've been craving, isn't it?
Ultimate femdom fantasy:We both get what we have expressed that we want. We can make it a reality. Those thoughts that you entertain in your incognito browser, that fantasy that makes you delete your history, that makes you uncomfortable with your spouse, that makes you grip your manhood with closed eyes and a tight jaw... I want to know exactly what you want, and I want to know your limits if you'd like me to surprise you. We can make them a real experience and a memory together.

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Dom - Getting toes & feet sucked
Other activites:I like trying on shoes.
Trying on nail polish
You can kiss my toes and polish my nails. Do a good job. . .
Stimulants, Cannabis, Alcohol (used sparingly. No druggies.)
Foot size:Medium 7-8
My foot turn ons:My feet are soft and pale. My toes are short and are like plump strawberries. I love my purple nail polish. Do you want me to pull my foot out of my shoe? Do you want to sniff my toes and lick the sweat between them? Or do you want to wash them first?
My turnoffs:Bad hygiene
Misogyny & Sexism
Any man who uses the term "bitch."
Any use of the term "N****r* in any form.
Cocky attitude.