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40's w/m, 265 lbs, 6'3", and a small penis. I'm not very good at the dating scene, but am interested in performing acts of perversion. I don't care much for the typical bdsm scene where I'm supposed to call you mistress and lick your boots. My fantasy includes being physically dominated, naked, and insulted. For the dommes into pussy worship, I'm happy to oblige.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height191 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Thin
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Living ArrangementsAlone
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyTransportation
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleTruck Driver

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Boldness, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI'm not sure what perfect is supposed to be. But for starters; I'm looking for someone that's not grossly obese, keeps good hygiene, is std free, and absolutely loves receiving oral pleasure. I have 3 adult children, don't need anymore and I won't participate in the kind of activities that might create more babies (except with proper precautions). Whether you're a smoker or not doesn't matter to me, (I'm an x-smoker, but don't worry about me).
Our first dateAn escape plan! Sorry, I couldn't resist. We should definitely meet at a public place such as a restaurant. After some chit chat in public, perhaps a movie would be nice. If we hit it off well on our first date, I wouldn't mind ending the night with some kinky fun.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSlave
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Chastity devices, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Cupping, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Physical humiliation, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Verbal humiliation
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI did a wrestling session a few years ago with a Portland area provider. While wearing a pair of panties she ordered me to wear, I got pin in several holds. I got face sat often, being ordered to lick. At some point, was instructed to perform some danc

Fetishes

FetishesBalloons, Crossdressing, Exhibitionism, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, ring, Tongue Fetish

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Regular Bars

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:None of the above
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Menstral play, public exposure, cbt, cutting, brown showers, and uncovered intercourse.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyWhile snooping through the panty drawer, trying on a pair of her panties, she walks in on me. In a fit of rage, she bends me over her knees and gives me a bare handed spanking. While getting spanked, she's giving me a painful wedgie with her thong until she tears the panties apart. Now that I'm completely naked with a sore ass, she stands me up, only to slug me in the gut. While curled up on the floor, she tells me what a worthless piece of shit I am. Next; she pulls up her skirt and orders me to eat her out while I jack off. After I have spewed my load on the floor, she orders me to lick it off the floor. Now that my punishment is over, I have to spend the rest of the night completely naked, performing her household chores while she watches tv, and ordered to orally satisfy her every time she feels horny. I'm also free to jerk off anytime I wish, but I have to clean up my own mess by licking it off the floor.
Fantasy locationKitchen, Swimming pool
Fantasy sex partner:Lily Carter

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I guess it depends on the role I'm in. I would usually prefer complete nudity, but I could also go for wearing a thong.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Rulers / Martinet, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Professional
Desired Persona:Strict teacher / Authoritarian
I like to wear:Other
Ultimate femdom fantasy:A wrestling session, ending up with me laying flat on my stomach, exhausted, getting fucked by a strap-on.